How to Book (and Rock) Your Boudoir Session Like a Pro

Oct 13

So, you’ve been thinking about booking a boudoir session… maybe for months (or years 👀). Whether you want to celebrate a milestone, gift something special, or just feel like the confident, beautiful human you are — a boudoir session is one of the most empowering experiences you can give yourself.

As a professional boudoir photographer, I’m here to walk you through everything you need to know — from choosing the right type of session, to preparing for your shoot, to understanding why this experience is so much more than just pretty pictures.

💌 Why Book a Boudoir Session?

Everyone has their own reason, but they all have one thing in common: it’s about you.

Maybe you’re celebrating a birthday, an engagement, or an anniversary. Maybe you’ve reached a new stage in your self-love journey and want to capture how far you’ve come. Or maybe you’ve never done something like this before and want to see yourself in a whole new light.

Boudoir is not about perfection — it’s about confidence, empowerment, and embracing your unique beauty exactly as you are. It’s the ultimate confidence boost and a reminder that you are art. It can also be for a fun cheeky idea you have too!

🌈 All Bodies Are Beautiful Here

Let’s get this straight — there’s no such thing as a “boudoir body.”

No matter your size, shape, stretch marks, scars, or insecurities, you are welcome here. Every body tells a story, and every story deserves to be celebrated.

Boudoir is for every woman, every person, and every body type. My job is to pose and light you in ways that flatter your natural beauty and highlight your favorite features — not hide anything.

Whether you’re curvy, petite, athletic, or anywhere in between, you’ll leave your session feeling seen, confident, and powerful. Because this experience isn’t about changing yourself; it’s about honoring yourself.

💄 Finding the Perfect Boudoir Experience for You

No two boudoir sessions are the same — and that’s the best part. When choosing what’s right for you, think about the mood you want your session to have.

Here are a few styles I offer (and love):

✨ Soft & Romantic: dreamy lighting, cozy sheets, gentle posing, and a touch of vintage glam. Perfect for brides or anyone wanting a timeless, feminine vibe.

🔥 Bold & Editorial: think high contrast, statement lingerie, dramatic shadows, and a confident, powerful look. Great for clients who want to embrace their fierce side.

💋 Lifestyle & Playful: a little more casual — think oversized shirts, cozy sweaters, or your partner’s jacket. It’s fun, flirty, and full of laughter.

When booking, we’ll chat about your vision, comfort level, and what makes you feel beautiful. Together, we’ll design a session that feels true to your personality and goals.

📅 How to Book Your Boudoir Session

Reach Out: Start by filling out the inquiry form on my website or sending me a message. Tell me a bit about what you’re dreaming up — your ideal date, your style, or if it’s for a special occasion.
Plan the Details: Once we pick a date, we’ll chat about location, wardrobe ideas, and what kind of mood you want to capture. I’ll guide you every step of the way so you know exactly what to expect.
Secure Your Spot: A retainer officially locks in your session. From there, we’ll go over my prep guide, outfit tips, and any add-ons you might want like hair and makeup or an album.

🧖‍♀️ A Few Tips to Prepare

Preparation is key to feeling confident on session day! Here are a few things to keep in mind:

Outfits: Choose 2–3 outfits that make you feel like you. Lace sets, cozy sweaters, your favorite heels — variety is key. Don’t forget accessories like jewelry or a robe for layering.
Rest Up: Get a good night’s sleep and drink lots of water the day before. It makes a difference!
Pamper Yourself: Do your nails, moisturize, and if you’re getting hair and makeup done, book it right before your session so you’re feeling fresh and fabulous.
Trust the Process: I’ll help with posing, lighting, and direction — all you need to do is show up ready to have fun and let go.

✨ What to Expect During Your Session

Your boudoir session will feel relaxed, fun, and empowering. I’ll guide you through poses that flatter your body and highlight your natural confidence. We’ll laugh, move, and capture a mix of intimate, bold, and playful moments.

And don’t worry — it’s totally normal to feel nervous at first! Within minutes, you’ll forget about the camera and start to feel like you’re just hanging out, doing something amazing for yourself.

📸 After Your Session

After your shoot, I’ll carefully curate and edit your images to highlight your natural glow and personality. You’ll get a private gallery where you can view, select, and order prints, albums, or wall art.

Seeing your photos for the first time is usually the best part — it’s like meeting a version of yourself that’s been there all along, just waiting to shine.